wow, that’s actually a really big question, as i’ve never really thought about my “type.”

i’m really attracted to people i can learn a lot from; especially in the field of music, considering how extensive my knowledge on the subject has become. i’ve always been the person to take charge for a lot of my life, and i hate being the leader. so even though i’m very strong willed and opinionated, i find my relationships with guys who can’t take charge of me ending sooner than those with guys who can. but i also feel compelled to take care of anybody who may need it. you have to be able to make me laugh. a lot. be kind to me, just leave some things unsaid so i never have you totally figured out.

in the physical sense, it’s not all that important. i do find myself attracted to brunette men more than others. i definitely feel more comfortable with somebody who’s bigger than me in terms of height and build, since i’m 5’9” and i always feel like i tower over everyone. i’m really attracted to men who have similar music taste. this is only a physical trait because it’s usually pretty obvious what you’re into judging by your style. even better if you play music. even better than THAT if you’re passionate enough to follow it as a career, since that’s the field that i’m working myself into anyway.

this is all really subjective, though. like i’ve dated guys who don’t fit a lot of these traits and them not fitting this template usually doesn’t play a role in our relationship ending. i’m not always attracted to the same type of guys! :)

man, i kind of needed this post. learned a lot about myself. why are you so anonymous?